6th April 2014 / Sunday
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Nithyanandeshwara Samaarambhaam
Nithyanandeshwari Madhyamaam |
Asmath Aachaarya Paryanthaam
Vandhey Guru Paramparaam ||
I welcome all the devotees, disciples, samajis, satsanghis sitting with us through Nithyananda TV all over the world.
The cities sitting with us in two-way video-conferencing all over the world: Nithyananda Nagaramu-Hyderabad, Kuala Lumpur-Palani, Avadi-Chennai, Simi Valley-California, Oklahoma-Somanatham, Ohio-Prayag, Washington DC-Sripuram, Seattle-Chidambaram, Mattakalappu-Ilangai, Toronto-Kailasam, Vancouver-Bhubaneshwar, Ohio-Ma Shivananda, Singapore-Singapuram, Nithyananda Vedic University-Los Angeles, Haridwar, New York-Varanasi, Auckland-New Zealand, Killinocchi-Ilangai, Indrani-New Jersey, Jorpati-Nepal, San Jose-Madurai, Austin, Dubai-Vaidyanatham, San Antonio-Texas, Hyderabad-Gupta Kashi, London-Kashi, San Diego-Tirualavai, Nithyananda University-Paris, Toon Moon-Hong Kong, Colorado Springs-USA, Oman-Sivagangai, Bangalore-Gangamma Circle, Philadelphia, Dakota Dunes, Phoenix-Kanchipuram, Guadeloupe-Rameswaram, High Point-North Carolina, Houston-Kalahasti, Downtown Los Angeles-California, Avadi-Chennai, Rose Li, Oman-Sivagangai, Nithyananda Nagara-Bidadi.................
I welcome all of you with my love and blessings.
Actually, it is so exciting to work and see all your questions live! I literally feel the whole day I am giving satsangh through Facebook! It feels like whole day I am giving satsangh through Facebook! So, I will try to answer many of your questions. I just wanted to remind the people who joined the satsangh today, if you are joining, if you are joining the satsangh today, through Sadhna TV or any other channel, I just wanted to tell you, I am continuing the satsangh, the earlier satsangh on the space of Advaitha, on the space of Advaitha, helping people to experience the space of Advaitha in a practical way.
Some people asked me, ‘Can we have pets in the teamily?’
In the teamily you create, you can have pets. You can even have trees, hills, rivers. Trees, hills, rivers, pets are energic enough, conscious enough, spirit enough to respond to you. So, a river or mountain or a pet or a tree can be added into your teamily. That is the first question.
For the new comers, the word “teamily”.... “teamily” means: Family and Team together! Unfortunately, human-beings have lost connection even with themselves. Forget about having connection with the family, even with themselves they lost connection. The strong, deep-rooted, grounded lifestyle is lost. Due to various reasons we became very unconscious. Now, making us come back to consciousness and created, complete, centred, grounded with yourself and with your family and team together – “Teamily”. Means, “teamily” is the people with whom you share your life. People who share their life with you is “teamily”. Literally, people who are part of your living, your existence, only those people I call them as “teamily”. Pets, trees, rivers, mountains can be part of your teamily.
Now, next step. I have some questions. I will try to answer. These are from Bela Patel, California.
She is asking, ‘Is interaction with teamily members a must on a daily basis?’
See, sometimes you will have a friend with whom you have not spoken for ten years; but that friendliness is there alive in you. So, with teamily, whether you interact every day or you don’t interact, that is not a problem. But the experience of Advaitha should be alive, that is all! That is all! Nothing else! There is no such thing as just because you speak to somebody they are your teamily. I know many people; they live in the same house, but they don’t talk to each other! Just because you live in the same place or you talk to them, you can’t say they are your teamily. There are some people, every day you talk to each other, but it is only fight....rat-a-tat-a-tat....
Bela Patel, please understand, I am not a “good-relationship” teaching guru. No! Please understand, I am not teaching you to have a good, great relationship. No! Even if you have the best husband or best wife, he/she is going to die one day. Neither you are going to go with them, nor they are going to come with you. I am not a guru who is teaching you how to have a great relationship, how to win friends and influence people. Understand, the good relationship happens as a side-effect. But the context I am teaching to all of you is to establish yourself in the spiritual space of Advaitha.
When you feel oneness, because of the oneness, you will know whatever insecurity the other person is feeling, you will know whatever desire or greed the other person is feeling, you will know the other person’s space. Because of your knowledge, you will have love and compassion. Understand, anything which becomes known to you, anything which becomes part of your knowledge, you start loving it. Because you know the desire, greed, struggle, fear the other person is going through when you experience Advaithic space with them, because of that non-duality, you love them, you become compassionate towards them, the relationship may become better. But, my purpose is not making just your relationship better.
Understand, the utilities of Advaitha is not Advaitha. The siddhis of Advaitha is not siddhi of Advaitha. The siddhis of non-dual consciousness is not non-dual consciousness itself. So, whether you talk to somebody every day, or not talk to somebody at all, all that does not matter. There are thousands of.....I can say, lakhs of people who don’t get to talk to me. But they are so fulfilled just seeing me! I can see in Facebook, in Twitter, the amount of messages pouring in e-mail. I don’t know how many lakhs of people’s teamily I am! At least for a few thousands, the first member of their teamily is me only! No wife, no husband, no son, no daughter; all of them are second, third only! For so many people! It is not that all of them talk to me every day. They may get to talk to me may be once a year. Some people, not even that! Thanks to Facebook and Twitter giving people the experience that they are at least able to convey whatever they want to convey and they can be sure it has reached me....that experience. Please understand, there are some people, all their members in their teamily is only Nithyananda Swamiji, Nithyananda Swamiji, Nithyananda Swamiji, Nithyananda Swamiji....that’s all!
Please understand, there is no need that you need to be talking to your teamily or not talking to your teamily. It is the space you carry, hold about them. Sometimes you may be talking lovingly, sometimes you may not be talking, sometimes you may just avoid, sometimes you may just fire....whatever it is, the space you carry about them, that is all that matters. And that only makes you powerful and you as a strength to your teamily. “Teamily” means, the way you carry them in you. Outside you may be loving, but inside if you are having deep incompletion and anger about them......no! So, I tell you, it has nothing to do with action; it is all about some decision you have about people.
I can see in my life, with so many Swamis, whenever they are not efficient, it is not that they are inefficient; they are arrogant! They have an abusive nature inside. Inside their space, they have a deep anger and arrogance towards life and the Sangha. Please understand, it is when your decisions change about life and every one, only then the teamily gets formed. It is the change of your decision, not your action.
Second question: ‘At minimum, how frequently should we be seeing them?’
This question, I think, I have already answered, Bela Patel.
The third question: ‘What should I do or not do? For example, if it is a friend, father, how can I be good friend, daughter?’
Bela Patel, I think all these questions I have already answered in one answer. It is the space you carry. See, when you are alone in your bedroom, when you remember them, how you feel about them inside you, that decides whether you are their teamily or not. You are alone; you just suddenly get to remember a person; how you feel inside you about that person, that is all that matters whether somebody is your teamily or not.
And the fourth question: ‘I have listed people of my family. However, they are not connected with Nithyananda Sangha. Is there need, or is it better to select Nithyananda Sangha people, who, later on, if Swamiji wants to interview them, there is no conflict?’
Please understand, don’t ever imagine that if you select people of the Sangha you will not be having conflict. Conflict is present based on your experience of Advaitha. You can be in the space of Advaitha with anybody. So, you don’t need to choose a member of the Sangha. You should choose the people with whom you are living, your day-to-day life is happening. All of them should be your teamily and you should be strong enough, powerful enough to teach them the science of Completion. And don’t worry that they are not part of the Nithyananda Sangha. The moment you teach them about Completion and they start understanding, they belong to Nithyananda Sangha. They may not accept Nithyananda, but they have to accept Nithyananda! Please understand, they may not accept Nithyananda, but they have to accept Nithyananda! Means, they may not accept the form of Nithyananda, but they have to accept the substance of Nithyananda. So, when somebody understands Completion and wants to complete, already they are part of Nithyananda Sangha! Don’t worry about it.
The first thing you need to do, you have to choose your teamily who are every day working with you, with whom you share your life, with whom you share your house, you share your bed, you share your food, you share your work, you share your office, you share all the moments of your life whether good or bad. So, they don’t need to mandatorily belong to the Nithyananda Sangha.
First thing, what is Nithyananda Sangha? Let me define it:
Whoever accepts this science of living enlightenment and radiates it in their life and enriches people with this great dhamma, I call them only as Nithyananda Sangha. So, I don’t call somebody as Nithyananda Sangha just because they wear my rudraksha mala or bracelet. There are many people, only when they come to see me, or come for Kalpataru, they wear that mala! It is just make-up, ashram-going make-up, office-going make-up! When they go to office how they wear a tie, like that, when they come to ashram or temple they wear rudraksha mala! No! Understand, your teamily should be the people with whom you are sharing your food, job. In your office, whether somebody is working above you or below you, if they are working with you, they should be your teamily. With whom you share your life, food, house, office, bed, these people should be your teamily. So, you become sincere enough to imbibe this Science of Completion and start sharing it with your teamily. And when you share, when they start understanding the Science of Completion and start learning, living, I tell you, naturally they become part of the Nithyananda Sangha, that’s all. So, you don’t need to worry that somebody who does not belong to Sangha, you are keeping them as a teamily member. You should only give priority to with whom you live.
Next question: ‘If they want me not to go to Nithyananda Sangha, am I obliged to do that?’
No! You are not obliged to do that! Ramakrishna says very clearly! Ramakrishna is one of the greatest masters. He says very clearly, ‘For enlightenment, for spirituality, you can give up anything! No Karma comes to you!’ He says, ‘You can give up any relationship, anybody...!’, very clearly. Ramakrishna is one of the greatest masters. He says very clearly, ‘For enlightenment, for spirituality, you can give up anything! No Karma comes to you!’ He says, ‘You can give up any relationship, anybody, anything!’ A personality like Ramakrishna who always stood in the space of truth, he himself declares very clearly, ‘For Guru, for spirituality, for enlightenment, anything can be given up! But don’t give up Guru for anything!’ So, you don’t need to....actually, you don’t need to bring Completion to them; you will not get into their incompletion.
And the next question from Bela Patel: ‘If they want me to start attending their religious gatherings, do I need to do that?’
Bela Patel, don’t even bother about their desires, their interests, and get confused. You should be powerful enough to teach them and tell them what is exactly right and what exactly makes somebody realize their highest possibility; that’s all. So, you don’t need to bend at all for anybody. Creating Advaithic space does not mean you becoming powerless.
So, please understand, understand, today I wanted all of you to continue to do your Completion. Yesterday all of you would have written, penned down all your incompletions; you would have started. I am 100% sure you cannot complete in one day, Completion with your whole teamily. But, still I have not received many of the ashramites’ teamily list. Even some of the Mahants’ – Ma Nirantara, Shri Nirantara – even some of the Mahants’ teamily list I have not received. So, all of you guys start doing it sincerely.
And, today, I wanted all of you to continue to do Completion. Continue with your Completion with your teamily. And, whoever has added me as part of their teamily, you can just keep my photograph and complete with it. And, I 100% guarantee, you will be completed! I am always in the space of Completion, don’t worry! I am always in the space of Completion! You sit and complete. You have my photograph as part of your teamily for your Completion process; you will be complete!
You also need to understand, it is not difficult, but you have to DO it! Just by thinking about it and not doing it is not going to help. Many people have an unconscious pattern: ‘Oh, I know this. I will practice it directly. Why should I go through all this process?’ No! Then you are in a delusion! If you know it, then why you are not able to practice this all this while? Because, the knowledge has not penetrated to every corner of your being! So, understand, this process will make the knowledge to be assimilated into every part of your being, this knowledge to be digested as an experience into every part of your being.
So, I wanted today also every one of you will continue with the process of Completion.
Let me describe the process of Completion:
Sit with your teamily members with the decision to bring Completion.
Second, don’t confront them. Tell them very clearly what all incompletions you are feeling and how you started building this pattern from your young age. The other person is not at all responsible for your incompletion. It is the patterns you built which is responsible. Understand, you always carry a mould. Anybody comes in your life, you just take them and slap them on that mould and say, ‘See my mould is all incomplete because of you!’ The incompletion is not because of that person, but because of the mould you are carrying, because of the pattern you are carrying. So, let the other person know the patterns which you developed from a young age which is responsible for your incompletion. This discussion, this Completion should go on incident by incident with the other person, step by step, till both of you are completely complete.
Understand, the Master is an eternal space of Completion. That is why he completes you in every incompletion. Listen! Whether you have incompletion with your mother or father or friend, the presence of the Master, the space of the Master completes you. But with an ordinary person, your incompletions create more incompletions with them. So, please understand, now decide to be a space of Completion. Now decide to be a space of Completion.
Today, continue to have Completion with your teamily. Sit with the teamily, and, in the night, again sit with yourself. This next one month, literally let the space of Advaitha happen in every one of you.
I can say that, from this Guru Poornima till Navaratri, we will have it as “Advaitha Rithu” – the “Season of Advaitha”. And now itself let me prepare all of you and do all this process, so from Guru Poornima to Navaratri, those two-three months, you are all established in the space of Advaitha, you are all established in the space of Advaitha. From Guru Poornima, the space of Advaitha should start, and by Navaratri, the shakthi of Advaitha should start expressing in you.
So, the essence of today’s satsangh:
Start the Completion! Start the Completion! Start the Completion! Listening about it is good. Thinking about it is great. But DOING it is greater!
Listening about it is great. Listening about Completion is great. Thinking about Completion is greater. DOING Completion is the greatest!
So, please understand! Move to the space of DOING the Completion. Everywhere let the teamilies.... If your teamily members are somewhere, at least call them, as many as possible, through the Skype call. So, at any given time, try to have the largest number of your teamily. For example, if you have twenty-one people in your teamily, try all twenty-one to be together for Completion. If that is not possible, at least twenty. If that is also not possible, at least nineteen, eighteen. But try as much as possible that the maximum number of people are there in your space of Completion, for your Completion.
With this, I will move to the Kalpataru process. Today Guadeloupe-Rameswaram and Los Angeles Downtown are having Kalpataru Darshan.
Chennai Avadi Centre, blessings for Nithya Dhyan Yoga! Blessings for Nithya Dhyan Yoga!
And Hyderabad, Pradyumna’s daughter, blessings for the Anna Prashna!
Great!
So, with this, I will move to the Kalpataru process. Before that, I also bless all the teamily members who have gathered here today for my Nayana Deeksha. My blessings to all of you! Today, tomorrow also, try your best to get all your teamily members at least once or twice to come to two-way video-conferencing and receive the blessings. Now, I bless all of you! Let you all be established in the space of Advaitha, non-dual consciousness, the highest possible existence!
So, all the Kalpataru participants, please pick up your paper and pen. Pen down one desire you want to cause as reality. And all the incompletions and doubts, the impossibilities you have about that one thought, please pen down.
(After a few minutes.....................)
Now the participants of Kalpataru in Los Angeles and Guadeloupe, please sit straight. I will lead you into the Kalpataru process. Complete all the incompletions you are having and drop them. Hold on to the space you want to create as reality. Visualize what you want to create as reality is already real. For example, if you want health, visualize you are already healthy. If you want wealth, visualize you already have wealth. All the incompletions, complete with all the incompletions and drop it. Hold the space for what you want to cause as reality. Namah Shivaya!
KALPATARU MEDITATION IN PROGRESS.....................
I bless you all, the space you created, let it become reality! I bless you all, the visualization you held, let it become reality! Thathaasthu!
Yes....we will start the darshan.
___________________ END OF SATSANGH ___________________
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