9th May

9th May 2014 / Friday

Nithyanandeshwara Samaarambhaam

Nithyanandeshwari Madhyamaam |

Asmath Aachaarya Paryanthaam

Vandhey Guru Paramparaam ||

I welcome all the devotees, disciples, samajis, satsanghis, Shrimahants, Mahants, Kotharis, Thanedars sitting with us all over the world through Nithyananda TV, Sadhna TV, two-way video-conferencing having Nayana Deeksha.

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With this, I welcome all of you with my love and blessings.

Some more cities are joining.  Halifax Canada.....................

I welcome all of you with my love and blessings.

Today I will expand on Living Advaitha.

Today, ninth day of Meenakshi Brahmotsava!  Let us bow down to Meenakshi.  Let us have darshan of Meenakshi.  I will take a few minutes to explain this programme.  Then I will enter into Living Advaitha.

Yesterday coronation (of Meenakshi).  Today she goes around all the ten directions conquering them.  You need to understand this, even if you get the kingdom from your father as your inheritance, after the coronation you have to go around all the ten directions to establish your authority.  If you are not able to establish your authority, anybody who declares independence, they are independent.  So, whenever the kingdom moves from father to son or daughter as inheritance, they themselves have to go around and establish their authority; means, they have to prove their qualifications.  Just because of the family, you cannot inherit.  In India, till Independence, it was not family inheritance.  In Hindu tradition, just because your father was a king, you cannot be a king.  Just because of your family, you cannot become.  You will have to establish your credibility.

So, yesterday was the coronation, and today Devi goes around all the ten directions and establishes her authority.  By tomorrow morning sunrise, she reaches Kailasha and sees Mahadeva.  She conquers Nandi.  Mahadeva has to come to fight with her directly.  The moment she sees Mahadeva, she understands she is his “ardhaangi”, the realization of “ardhaangi” happens.  Then, by tomorrow evening the marriage ceremony.  Mahadeva says, ‘Go to Madurai.  I will come there and marry you with all your relatives.’  Then Mahadeva comes there with all his bhoota ganas, and the whole Madurai gets frightened seeing the Shiva Ganas.  Then Mahadeva takes a very beautiful, handsome form.  That form only is called as “Sundareshwara”, “Lord of Beauty and Grace”. 

So, tomorrow, before sunset, the marriage happens.  This is the story.

So, today, Devi is going around all the ten directions and establishing her authority.  That is what you are seeing. 

Great!  Let us move to Living Advaitha.  Listen!

I wanted to make these few statements on Living Advaitha, the teamily process in which I am guiding all of you.  The more and more violence you cherish, the more and more you become pieces, disintegrated and useless to yourself and others.  Listen!  Never ever believe, out of ignorance or innocence people become useless.  No!  Only out of cunningness, people become useless!  It is a law of life!  If somebody is not useful to themselves and others, be very clear, it is intense violence they are cherishing.  See, in the land when there is no water and it becomes too hot, it breaks and gives way, goes to pieces.  Same way, in the Being when there is too much of violence, heat, it gets disintegrated. 

I tell you, not once or twice, thousands of times I have seen, whether it is Thanedars, Kotharis or Mahants, whenever I see inefficiency, I see a deep anger inside them, arrogance, feeling that they need to be given more in everything.  I never accept innocence or ignorance with inefficiency.  It is a deep violence and anger and arrogance.  So, listen!  This is the law of life.  This is the law of life.  You cannot debate with it.  You cannot fight with it.  You cannot change it.  There is nothing even to accept it. 

Yesterday I received an email from St. Louis Mahant about trying to show she is so weak, innocent, and her sobbing stories, crying stories.  The moment I received the mail and read it, I told the Shrimahant, ‘Tell her to come out of her violence, arrogance, anger.’  My Shrimahant said, ‘I can never imagine she can be violent and angry.  She is so soft, soft-spoken, smooth, silent, peaceful.’  I said, ‘No!  This is the spiritual advice!’

I tell you, anywhere, anywhere, this is the law of life.  Get it!  Anywhere you see people carrying impossibility, dry, cannot relate with the reality of life.  Please understand, whenever you relate with the reality of life joyfully, auspicious things simply happen around you.  Even in my Sangha, some of these fellows, they try to show they are very spiritual and try to live aloof life.  I tell them, ‘No!’  Complete arrogance!  If the people around you, who see you, live around you, if they cannot celebrate your presence, you are completely infected with intense violence. 

Be very clear, people should be able to celebrate your presence.  If people around you celebrate your presence, you are a Sannyasi.  Otherwise, you just live in your arrogant shell.  You need to do a lot of Completion.  I tell you, please understand, these are some of the laws of life, but these are truths!  Your body should celebrate your presence inside it.  Your stomach should bless you after you give it food.  If, afterwards, you feel tired, heavy, uncomfortable, be very clear, you are not eating for your body, you are eating for your tongue!  A few inch muscle can destroy your whole life!  Your body should celebrate your presence inside it.  The people around you should celebrate your presence in their life.  Somehow, this not being in tune with life is considered as one of the spiritual qualities, or it is tolerated. 

Please understand, you should not accumulate wealth immorally, adharmically.  But, if you are not able to generate whatever wealth you need to fulfil your mission, there is something seriously wrong in you; your goal is not as you declared, there is hypocrisy in it; there is a strong inauthenticity, cheating.  I tell you, just if one body and one mind is integrated to one goal, the Cosmos can never say, ‘No!’, even if the goal is so-called “wrong”!  If the body and mind is integrated to the goal, authentic to the goal, the Cosmos has to simply say, ‘Thathaasthu’! 

From Tiruvannamalai Mahant they gave a mail, ‘I am not able to run the ashram.  Too many staff.  No income.  I will drop the staff.’  I just told him, ‘Drop this pattern of “how much I can do”, and look around.  You will see that what you need will immediately be there!’  By evening I received a mail, ‘Yes, I dropped the pattern “how much I can do” and looked around.  There were people already giving what I wanted!’ 

Understand, what you call as your practical problems are nothing but arrogance, abusive behaviour towards life, constantly imagining that by retaining your arrogance, incompletions, you can be successful.  Understand, the law of life does not work that way.  It is only with Completion, establishing yourself in the space of Completion, anything great can express through you.  Immediately we start thinking, ‘No, no, no.  There are millionaires, billionaires.  Are they all in Completion or what?  When they all can accumulate what they want, why not me?’  First thing, how do you know they are not in Completion?  May be they built the Completion in the past births.  That is why they are able to handle that huge responsibility in this birth.  They built enough space in the space of Completion.  Or, if they don’t have Completion, wealth may be around them, but they may not be living it.  The zeros growing in bank is not wealth.  The heroism you feel inside you is wealth.  The possibility you feel inside you is wealth.  Even if there is billions and billions in the bank, trillions in the bank, if you are not carrying the possibility in your Being, I don’t call it as wealth.  If you are carrying the possibility and just making what you want happen and go on, I call that as wealth.

Deep down, the violence and arrogance you carry is responsible for keeping you away from people and happening.  Understand, life is a great happening.  It is a constant Utsava, celebration, from morning till night.  You just need to drop your frustration.  Life is literally Varanasi!  It is a celebration always!  If you see the people coming in, it is fascinating.  If you see the dust they leave and go, it is frustrating.  Now, it is your responsibility to remove all the frustrating things and make the place more and more fascinating.  Same way, in your life!  If you are constantly stuck with some of the failures which you created and don’t want to complete, life is frustrating.  And if you decide to stand up and complete, life is fascinating.  Understand, whether it is fascinating or frustrating, life is life!  Life is life!  If you are ready to fall in tune with life, you are ready to complete with it, it will become more and more fascinating. 

So, the first thing, stop cherishing constant anger and violence, feeling life is not just.  The more and more you cherish ‘Life is not just!  Life is adharmic!  Life does not give my right!  It is not equal to all!’, the more and more you cherish this idea, the more and more you will develop anger and violence, and more and more you will become dry.  When you become more and more dry, you will be broken to more and more pieces, and when you are broken to more and more pieces, you will become more and more powerless, and exactly you will become what you thought – dirt!  Exactly you will become what you thought as you – dirt!  Now what I said is vicious circle.  Now I will present the virtuous circle: Start cherishing, ‘No....life has done so many things to me.  I was not ready to take it up responsibly.’  Then, naturally, the first seed will start happening.  Cherish it more and more with responsibility and Completion.  You will see the seed grows, becomes a plant; the plant grows, becomes a tree; the tree grows and gives the fruit.  The fruit that the tree delivers is Living Advaitha!

When you celebrate the life happening in you, first thing, your body will be so happy.  Next, the joy will be such, the people around you will start feeling you are such a strong presence.  When people around you celebrate you, understand, everything you call as LIFE will simply happen!  Your body celebrating your presence is “Health”!  People around you celebrating your presence is Wealth, Relationship, Fulfilment, Life, everything!  In this teamily process, both will happen!  Your body will also celebrate your presence.  Your body celebrating your presence is “Health”.  Your mind celebrating your presence is “Bliss”.  People around you celebrating your presence is “Life”.  The teamily process will teach you that.    

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To all the visitors, viewers, listeners, wherever, whenever you are cherishing impossibility, first thing you need to do is dropping the violence, anger, you carry inside you about life.  Even if you think, ‘Ohhhh...how much I can do?’, then just die!  That’s all!  Do you want that?  Then why are you living “Indian divorce”?  This “Indian divorce” is a unique lifestyle!  Neither you are married actually, nor you are separated legally!  You live your life, she lives her life, kids live their life!  And when she goes for her dinner, she leaves a note, ‘I am going for dinner with my friends.  Your dinner is in the Cook Book, page #42.  The ingredients are available in Reliance Fresh!’  The “Indian divorce”!  (Reliance Fresh is a major grocery retail chain in India).  Don’t have “Indian divorce” with life!  Either live happily, otherwise disappear!  You can take another one body!  When I say “disappear”, I don’t mean commit suicide.  You cannot commit suicide.  In Hindu tradition, suicide is not allowed.  In our dharma, suicide is not allowed.  Then the only way is, as long as you have the body you have to live.  You yourself don’t have the right to destroy your body.  Actually, there is no option.  You just have to make it happen because you took the body.  Don’t live “Indian divorce” with life, understand.  I just want to repeat this word: Don’t live “Indian divorce” with life! 

Indian marriages happen for so many reasons other than love. I can say, almost if there are two-hundred reasons why you married whom you married, and pen down, other than love, everything will be there!  One man says, ‘I got married because I was tired of cooking, cleaning the home, and washing clothes.’  The other man says, ‘Amazing!  I got divorced for the same reason!’  Arrey, if you are tired of cooking, cleaning, and washing clothes, you should buy a washing machine, dish washer, and vacuum cleaner!  You don’t need to get married for it!  HAHAHAHAHAHA!  I don’t want to get too deep into it. 

Same way, don’t treat life like that.  Constant nagging!  Constantly if you tell, ‘Life is unjust!  Life is unjust!  I am not given what I want!  I am not given what I am qualified for!  This does not work!   That does not work!’, even Kaalabhairava will spit on you!  Thooo!!  Like a constantly nagging baby!  Who wants? 

Behave with life like a friend.  You don’t cry all the time to your friend.  You know what kind of a face you should show to your friend.  Show the same face to your own Being.  Even to yourself, don’t be a constant, frightened child to yourself.  Complete with it!  Get rid of that identity!  Build yourself authentically!  Don’t constantly be a frightened baby.

The first step in Living Advaitha is to get rid of fear.  Please understand, your fear is not cute.  It is nothing but your own violence which you don’t want to accept as violence, because you thinking you have violence is too much!  Fear is a coat, sugar-coat done on violence. 

There is a beautiful verse by a great saint from Tamil Nadu, Manickavaasagar.  He sings, ‘People who carry inside a deep violence, but believe that they have fear, O, Mahadeva, let me be afraid of them and keep them away from me.’ 

First complete with that frightened child inside you.  Show yourself as a friend to you.  Let you seeing you bring tremendous confidence to you.  Even when you go to a temple, when you go to a God, Guru, the way you carry you and present you to them, they should feel YOU ARE THE OFFERING you are offering to them, not a few bananas and coconut!  Who wants that?  I see the person who brings, not what is brought.  Nothing can be brought to me, understand?  Nothing can be brought to me!  Neither I enjoy nor I lack.  Neither I enjoy what is brought to me, nor I lack if I want anything.  Please understand, I am making this statement with all my integrity and authenticity.  Neither I enjoy what is brought to me, nor I lack if I want something.  It is the person who brings, the being you bring, not even the body and mind which brings!  No!  The Being which brings! 

Don’t have that “Indian divorce relationship” with life. 

People come and ask me, ‘What is the secret of a happy marriage, Swamiji?’

I tell them, ‘The secret of a happy marriage remains a secret!’  HAHAHAHAHAHA!

Listen!  When you start thinking for the whole teamily – the homework which I gave you yesterday – the first thing you need to do is, Complete and drop your violence, anger towards you and others, and the impossibility.  All impossibility grows out of violence.  All powerlessness grows out of violence.  And don’t think your tantrums are going to be treated by life as cute.  No!  Tantrums are dealt only with “gadhas”; means, mace!  Tantrums are not dealt with candy in life.  May be your parents would have dealt with your tantrums with candy, but life is not going to deal with your tantrums with candy.  Your parents were inefficient, and they were in a hurry to do something, so they just wanted to silence you.  And they threw what you want, when you threw a tantrum.  They have no time to spend with you.  But life has a lot of time to spend with you.  Your tantrums are going to be handled only by mace, not by candy, be very clear.  So, stop throwing tantrum.  Throwing tantrum is not cute.  Cherishing violence and fear is what is “throwing tantrum towards life”.  That is not cute, and life does not enjoy it.  Complete with it and decide to cause the reality of your teamily.

So, you will continue to do this homework till tomorrow.  Yesterday I gave you this homework.  I gave you forty-eight hours time.  So, till tomorrow’s satsangh, you will continue to do this homework.  This homework is not for the Inner Awakening participants.  Inner Awakening participants, I am guiding you through the Inner Awakening sessions.  This is for the satsanghis.  Satsanghis are the people, devotees who are attending the satsanghs every day.  Actually, without even attending Inner Awakening, I am leading them also into the same Living Advaitha process by small, small, small processes, step by step by step.  See, in Inner Awakening, you go through fifty-seven processes and twenty-two initiations.  The same fifty-seven processes I made it into hundred processes and offer it through the satsangh freely for the people to learn from their house itself.  But, unfortunately, initiation they cannot have.  For that they should come here physically. 

So, with this, the punchline of today’s satsangh: Whether you decide to fight or flight, the frightened child inside you is wrong, not cute.  Complete with it.  Your tantrum towards life is not going to be handled with candy; it is only going to be handled with mace.  So, complete with your fear and violence.  Both are not cute, be very clear about it.  Powerlessness is punished.  So, be very clear, powerlessness is punished.  So, complete with it.  In life, law of life, powerlessness is not helped, sympathized, empathized; it is punished.  You are given the knowledge to get out of powerlessness.  If you are not ready to apply and use it and get out of it, then you are punished.  Don’t get into that vicious circle. 

Please understand, whatever I am saying is law of life.  Whether you give the title “It is bad” or “It is good”, nobody is there to receive the title, because life is YOU!  Any title you give, you can paste it on your forehead, because the title belongs to YOU!  Any title you want give to life, “good” or “bad”, “right” or “wrong”, “just” or “unjust”, please stick it on your forehead, because that is where it belongs.  The title you are giving to life is for YOU!  Just understand the simple truths of life and tune yourself to it.  That’s all!

Let us move to the Kalpataru process. 

Whoever has come for Kalpataru Darshan in Ananda Vana, and all over the world, pick up paper and pen.  Pen down the one desire you want to cause as reality, and all the incompletions you have around that thought.  Please start.

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Yes...now please sit straight.  Close your eyes.  Complete with all the incompletions you are carrying and drop them.  Hold on to the space, hold on to the visualization you want to cause as reality.  Namah Shivaya!

KALPATARU MEDITATION IN PROGRESS.....................

Thathaasthu!  I bless you all!  The space you carry, let it become reality!  The visualization you carry, let it become reality!  I bless you all!  Let you all radiate with Integrity, Authenticity, Responsibility, Enriching and Causing eternal bliss, Nithyananda!  Thank you!

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