Webinar - ENLIGHTENED RELATIONSHIPS 27TH JULY

 ENLIGHTENED RELATIONSHIPS

Webinar by Paramahamsa Nithyananda – Sunday, 27 July 2014

I welcome all of you with my love and respects.

Subject for today’s webinar – “Enlightened Relationships”. 

True love and fulfilling relationships is your birthright.

Please understand, what is “true love”?  True love is the experience, the way, method through which you connect with everyone with the basic cognition of Oneness.  Please understand, the basic truth about life is Oneness.  The vast energy field where all of us experience that Oneness, having that Oneness as a basic cognition, the way you relate with everyone, is “true love”.

 “Fulfilling relationship” means, every relationship which reminds you again and again and gives you the experience of that Oneness, is “fulfilling relationship”.  The person may be near you, far away from you, he may be your spouse, he or she may be your friend, whatever title, name you may give, as long as that being brings you to the powerful space and reminds you, makes you experience Oneness, it is “fulfilling relationship”.

People ask me so many questions about relationship, relationship subject.  Literally, millions of questions I receive!  “Relationship” is the subject I receive tons of questions every day.  So I will try to answer some of the questions related to relationship. 

First question people always ask, ‘Swamiji, what is true love, and how do you experience it in your life?’ 

Just now I explained, true love is again and again reminding you of the space of Oneness, the unifying field of consciousness, and any thought, action, word, which comes from that experience of Oneness towards anybody, anything, is “true love”.  Remember the basic truths about life of Oneness, you will naturally experience true love in your life.

People ask, ‘How do I know if I am experiencing true love or just a mind game?’ 

Understand, if the other person again and again makes you powerful, makes you experience the Oneness, you are experiencing true love; or, forget about it, it is all a mind game. 

People tell me, ‘I seem always to attract the same kind of relationships?  How do I get out of this pattern?  How do I attract the right person into my life?’ 

First thing, you will always attract the same kind of relationships in your life as long as you carry the same pattern.  When you get out of the pattern you are carrying, when you complete with all the patterns you are carrying, when you bring yourself to Completion from all the incompletions you are carrying, you will attract the right person into your life.  Right person into your life!  Till you carry the same pattern, you will attract the same kind of relationships in your life. 

Please understand, the way you relate, the way you respond, the way you utter words, that puts the expectation, that makes the other person to react, respond, reciprocate.  So, end of the day, it is you who is moulding even the other person through your relationship with that person.  So, your pattern decides the way the other person responds to your relationship. 

People ask me sometimes, ‘What makes it so difficult to move on from previous relationships?  My past is affecting my ability to love.  How can I clear the past and rewrite the relationship the way I want?’

Listen!  Listen!  You need to know, anything which brings you powerlessness, difficulty, you never had that systematically!  Please understand, if you had wealth and lost it, you had relationship and lost it, if you had health and lost it, you have not systematically built it; it has happened to you as accident.  Anything you consciously build, anything you consciously build, stays with you and makes you more and more powerful.  If you feel your earlier relationships are failure, you need to know you did not build that consciously; it happened as an accident.  May be just because you were a young girl or young man, relationships would have happened, not because you wanted to enter into it consciously with a purpose, with a clear goal in life.  So, understand, the word “relationship” should not be used if it has happened as an accident.  So, whenever some relationship breaks, fails, remember to name that as an “accidental” relationship, so that it is easy for you to get out of it, complete with it, you can clear the past, and at least next time you can be very sure about what you should be doing and should not be doing.  The earlier relationships, why it worked and why it failed, the right lessons are learnt, the right context is set for you to rewrite the relationship, the new relationship, the way you wanted, the way you want to live.  So, understand, you can clear the past and rewrite the relationship the way you want, the way you want it to be by understanding the right reasons why it worked and why it failed.  So, whatever is the reason why it failed, you need to complete with it, get rid of those patterns to make the relationship work in a right way.

Sometimes people ask me, ‘Sometimes it seems like love alone is not enough to have a successful relationship.  We seem to have many conflicts with people we love.  What else other than love is needed?’

I tell you, Completion!  Completion with yourself and with others is the most important ingredient of relationship.  Love is actually the side-effect of the relationship.  Completion is the main ingredient of relationship.  Completion with yourself and Completion with others is the main ingredient of relationship.  Please understand, ability to see the possibility in you is Completion with yourself, ability to see the possibility in others is Completion with others.  So, Completion with yourself and Completion with others is the first ingredient for a successful relationship.  Love is side-effect.  When I say “Completion”, I mean your ability to look at your possibility instead of denying constantly yourself, loading yourself with all the impossibilities and past failures.  So, denying yourself all possibility is incompletion, allowing your possibilities is Completion.  Same way, seeing and allowing others possibility is Completion with others. 

People ask, ‘How can I heal my broken relationship with my wife, husband, sibling, son, daughter?’

Listen!  This is a straight answer I am giving you!  Decide, however difficult it may look in the initial level, decide to have Completion with yourself and Completion with all the relationships in your life.  Look in, how “The World”, the actual happenings, facts, have been twisted, manipulated, interpreted by the “My World” happenings.  Listen!  Just see how “The World”, the real factual happenings were interpreted, manipulated in your world and do this like an exercise.  Sit and look in how the relationship with your spouse, with your sibling, with your son, with your daughter, started getting incomplete, started getting broken.  Look into those incompletions and pen down, intranalyze, whether it is because of the fact or because of your interpretations.  I can very clearly tell, mostly, in a way, almost always it is because of your interpretations.  Have enough intelligence and patience to look into your interpretations and how many times it is proved your interpretation is wrong, how you hold them up, look in, and complete with that.  Complete with that!  Complete with that!  And sit and openly talk to your spouse, sibling, son or daughter, with whomever you have broken relationships.  Sit and openly have a discussion with them, talk to them.  That is the only way you can heal the broken relationships, you can complete. 

Same way, people feel sometimes that someone they love is not communicating with them. They say, ‘We have tried many times.  How do I get them to talk to me?’ 

Listen!  First thing, the other person not communicating with you is nothing but he has closed the doors on you.  At those moments, trying more and more times may lead to more and more incompletion.  There are only two things which can heal deep wounded incompletions, deep wounds in relationships:  One is “time”; another one is “friendliness”.  Without communicating you can continue to carry friendliness towards the person, understand?  Whether you understand it or not, believe it or not, ultimately, as truth, all of us are connected through this unifying consciousness.  So, when you carry friendliness, the other person will automatically respond, start reacting even if you are not trying to communicate with that person.  So, wait, complete with yourself, allow time to heal; and the power of your Completion, the way you carry the friendliness will simply make the other person communicate with you, relate with you.  Please understand, I am not talking something like miracle or taking a chance; I am talking about a science! 

People say, ‘How can I trust people?’  People ask me this question, ‘How can I trust people?  What if they take advantage of me?  How do I start trusting after I have been hurt by others?’

First thing, as long as you have some business understanding bargain, do not call that as “trust”.  If you have been hurt, it must be in bargains, never in trust.  Trust is a pure powerfulness to experience about you, and the surety, certainty, guarantee you experience about others just by the way of Oneness, not by the way of their words or commitments, the way they talk to you; it is the way they make you feel about you and them.  Understand, the way they carry their being into you and they carry you into them.  “Trust” is surety given by the being, not by the words; honest to the being, not to any words.  So, if you have been hurt, be very clear, earlier you might have had bargaining relationship, not trust.  So, do not call bargaining relationship, business relationships, as trust, and lose the ability to trust anybody.  It is a very, very, very serious miss you will do in your life!  No!  That will be a very costly mistake! 

And same way, don’t call your irresponsibility to gauge the other person as “you trusting and they taking advantage”.  Most of the time, you complain about the other person that they took advantage of you.  But if you look back, you were irresponsible in gauging them!  You were irresponsible, that is the truth!  Don’t cover up your irresponsibility, saying, ‘I trusted them!’  Did they give you word?  Did they give you commitment?  And even when they committed are they whole, complete?  Was their whole being committed, or only one part of them committed?  Or do they have the capacity to hold their words and commitments?  Is he a matured man, integrated being, who has the capacity to stand by his commitment?  You need to look into all that.  You are responsible!  Look into that!  You cannot say your irresponsibility can be justified.  You just blame others that they took advantage of you.  Most of the time people blame others that they took advantage of them because of their own irresponsibility.  At least be very clear, YOU were irresponsible in that relationship, so that you will retain the ability to trust the next person in your life responsibly.  If you give a wrong word, saying, ‘I trusted, and they took advantage of me!’, you will lose the capacity to trust.  This is one of the important dimensions of life which should never be lost. 

Same way, people ask me, ‘How do I know if a person is right for me as a partner?’

Listen!  This is a very important question.  How you carry the person in your inner-space:  When you remember that person all by yourself, does he make you feel powerful?  Does he complete you and make you feel more and more authentic?  Please understand, I am not asking does he make you feel excited?  Does he make you feel good?  Does he make you feel enthusiastic?  No!  I am not asking you all those questions!  Does he fulfil?  Does he make you feel powerful?  Does he or she make you feel complete?  When you remember the person all by yourself, sitting alone, how you feel about him, what is in him or her that completes you, makes you powerful, what is that in him or in her that makes you experience the Oneness?  Look in.  Anybody who makes you experience the Oneness, feeling of non-duality, anybody who makes you feel powerful, completes you, helps you go beyond all your incompletions, powerlessness, really makes you experience powerfulness, is the right person for you.  You need to spend a little time with yourself and that person to see the way you experience Completion with you and Completion with him.  If that person is able to bring Completion in your life, you are able to bring Completion in his life or her life, or both of you are able to see each others’ possibility, then the person is right for you. 

Next, people ask me, ‘How can I bring true love into a relationship to make it extraordinary?’

The one and only way: Bring the experience of Oneness and Completion in both of you.  Welcome to the Inner Awakening to experience the real true Completion, Oneness with the other person, where you complete the other person and the other person completes you, and the true love is experienced, where the true love is awakened.  Understand, if you bring Completion to each other, the true love is awakened and the relationship becomes extraordinary, leads itself to the experience of Oneness. 

People also ask me about the concept of “soul mates”:  ‘Do they exist?’  ‘What does it mean practically?’

I want to tell you, “soul mates” exist only after you discover your soul, not before that!  Unless you discover your soul, soul mates don’t exist.  Unless you experience Completion, soul mates don’t exist for you.  If you experience Completion, you will attract the right person to whom you will cause Completion, who will cause more and more Completion in you, you both will cause each others’ reality.  When I use the word “Causing Oneness to each other”, means, causing each others’ reality,   you don’t feel your reality is separate from that person, that person’s reality is separate from you.  Both of you feeling your present reality and future reality is one and the same is what I call “experiencing Oneness”.  When you know the other person’s reality is also the same as yours, you will have tremendous compassion, sympathy, true friendliness.  That is what I call as “love”, “fulfilling relationships”.  Soul mate is a person with whom you reverberate and both of you feel the present reality and the future reality is one and the same; they are soul mates.  If you discover the soul, you will have soul mate.

People ask me, ‘What is the best way to teach children about healthy relationships?’

The best way is, educate them with the simple ideas how the friendliness strengthens them again and again.  Do not add your selfishness into their being.  Do not add your self-centred incompletions into their thinking part.  Teach them to be powerful and complete.  Teach them the joy of Completion.  Teach them to relate from the space of powerfulness.  Bring them to the eN-Genius program.  We will teach them.  We will give them the experience of powerfulness, relating from the space of Completion, and healthy relationships. 

Last, but not the least, this is a very important question I always face: ‘How to use love and the relationship as a gateway to enlightenment and higher consciousness?’

This is very important!  Please listen!  Understand, you are nothing but a bunch of your patterns, past experiences.  Same way, the other person also is nothing but a bunch of patterns, past experiences, mainly incompletions.  Remember, whatever leads you to incompletion will be leading the other person also into incompletion.  Remember, never to retain the other person in your life through incompletions.  No!  Trying to have the other person in your life through incompletions is psychological slavery.  Most of the time, because you are dependent on the other person, you make the other person dependent on you subtly.  When you understand you don’t want to be bound by somebody, you don’t want to be controlled, you don’t want to be under slavery, you don’t want the relationship with incompletions, when you understand that, having the clarity that the other person also does not want to be bound by incompletions, powerlessness, or slavery, giving the same space you want to have to the other person is what I call “Oneness”.  Giving the space you want to have to the other person also is “Oneness”!  Giving the space you want to have to the other person also is “Oneness”, understand? 

Love and relationship is the greatest way your own unknown part of you can be known to you by being mirrored by the other person.  I tell you, “beloved” is a person who awakens your own unknown parts of you to you.  Even you will suddenly be shocked that you can fall in love so much, you can love so much!  “Beloved” is a person who awakens that deep friendliness dimension of you which was unknown to you.  “Lover” is a person who awakens that extreme friendliness and joy which was inside you, but unknown to you.  “Teacher” is a person who awakens the knowledge component of you which was inside you, but unknown to you.  “Beloved” is a person who awakens the love component of you, friendliness component of you which was inside you, but unknown to you.  Your beloved, the other person, the “other” in the relationship, is a mirror of unknown components of you.  When both of you mirror each others’ unknown components and start exploring, supporting each other to complete each other, this is the best path for enlightenment!  That is the best path for enlightenment!  I want to tell you, no one can be achieving enlightenment alone.  No one can achieve enlightenment in loneliness.  Even if he does not have relationship with a man or woman, he will be having relationship with a river, or a hill, or a tree, to achieve the Complete Completion and enlightenment.  Relationship can be beautifully used as a gateway to enlightenment and higher consciousness when you decide not to put the other person in the space you don’t want to be put.  If you don’t want incompletions, don’t give incompletions to the other person.  If you don’t want slavery, don’t give slavery to the other person.  The space you wanted, give the same space to the other person; you will see, both of you reach enlightenment!

People ask me many times, ‘Swamiji, define Love vs Lust vs Passion.’

When you give the same space you wanted to the other person from the understanding of Oneness, when your beings experience the same reality, it is “Love”.  When your bodies try to experience the same reality by exchange of muscle-memory and the physical touch, it is “Lust”.  When your minds try to exchange the bio-memories and experience Oneness, it is “Passion”.  Please understand, when your beings try to experience Oneness, it is “Love”.  When your emotions, interests, try to experience Oneness, that is “Passion”.  When your bodies try to experience Oneness, it is “Lust”.  All the three is nothing but trying to experience Oneness at various levels.  If one leads to the higher levels of Oneness, everything is right.  If one leads to the next level of Oneness, the body’s Oneness leads to the level of Passion’s Oneness, the Passion’s Oneness leads to the level of the Being’s Oneness, everything is right.  When body’s experience of Oneness, if it leads you to explore the Oneness of the emotion, and the emotion’s Oneness leads you to the experience of Oneness of the Being, everything is right.  If any one step does not lead you to the next step, it is wrong. 

People also ask me, ‘What is the difference between “devotion” and “attachment”?’

Ask me this question, because I am seeing tons and tons “devoted”, and thousands and thousands “attached”!  In “devotion”, you try to experience my space of Completion.  In “attachment”, you try your best to pull me down to your level of incompletion.  If you expect me to act in the same pattern you wanted, it is “attachment”.  If you evolve in the space I am living and radiating, it is “devotion”.  That is all!  Very simple definition! 

People ask, ‘Commitment vs Responsibility, Swamiji, please define?’ 

I have seen people ask me, Commitment vs Responsibility in a relationship.  Please understand, if you constantly think from incompletion, powerlessness, and can constantly be thinking what all can go wrong, and trying to control only that, stop only that “what all can go wrong”, that is “Commitment”.  “Responsibility” means, thinking from the powerful space “what all can go right”, and making that happen, working for that.  “Responsibility” is working for what all can go right.  “Commitment” is stopping, working to stop what all can go wrong.  Commitment is “crisis management mood”, Responsibility is “creation mood”.  In a relationship, “Responsibility” means, constantly raising it to the next, next, next levels of Completion; “Commitment” means, trying to keep the plastic rose look like the real rose by spraying the perfumes.  I tell you, “Commitment” is more like dragging; “Responsibility” is more like flowering.  “Responsibility” means, feeling the present and future reality of both beings as one!  “Commitment” means, somehow do actions, words, to keep it alive, keep going.  There is a big difference between “Commitment” and “Responsible”. 

People ask me to define “trying to improve others” vs “accepting the others as they are”.  Please understand, both are wrong!  Trying to improve the other, means, constant resistance.  Accepting the others as they are, means, non-caring laziness.  Both are wrong!  Be very clear, the other person is not one!  Look into that person.  All the Completion space that person carries, accept it as it is.  Imbibe, imbibe so much that you feel one with it.  All the powerlessness, even if it helps you to keep the other person under your control, don’t keep that alive; it is not good for you for a long term.  Help that person to complete with that.  Even if you know if that person completes from that incompletion he will leave you, help the person complete.  He may leave you, but he will be living with you!  He may not be able to stop living with you!  I have seen so many people leaving me, but they can never stop living with me.  I tell you, the other person is not one!  That is an important understanding you need to have!  Neither trying to improve the others, nor accepting the others as they are, is right.  Try to complete the other person wherever he or she has the incompletions; accept the other person as they are wherever they have Completion.

People ask me to define “Trust” vs “False Hopes”.  

Understand, again, “Trust” is from the powerful space with the clarity of what you are.  Only with the clarity of what you are, “Trust” happens.  “False Hopes” is you not trying to understand what you are, you not trying to understand what the other person is, is “False Hopes”.  Understand, when you understand who you are, what you feel as you inside, how you show you to others outside, how others perceive you, and how you perceive the world, if all these four are aligned, you know you.  When you know you, whatever you feel is “Trust”.  When you don’t know you, whatever you feel is “False Hope”.  When you know you, whatever you feel about you and others is “Trust”.  When you don’t know you, whatever you feel about you and others is “False Hopes”.  Whatever you feel, whether it is “Trust” or “False Hopes” depends on whether you know you. 

People ask me to define “Loneliness” and “Aloneness”.

Just now I used both words in the same meaning.  But in order to define both words deeply, in Sanskrit we have a word – “Kaivalya”; means, “aloneness”.  “Loneliness” is, you want to have somebody to escape from you and your incompletions; that is “loneliness”.  Even if you have the other person or not, you will be lonely.  “Aloneness” is, you are so complete, so fulfilled, so powerful, you don’t need anybody to complete you, make you powerful, that is “aloneness”, whether you have the other person or not.  Whether you have the other person or not, if you are complete with yourself, you are “alone”.  Whether you have the other person or not, if you are incomplete with yourself, you are “lonely”.  “Lonely” people attract slavery, abusive relationships.  “Alone” people attract joyful, completing relationships, where not only they are complete, they complete the other person also. 

Now, as the essence of today’s webinar, the only thing I wanted to tell you is, bring authenticity in your being, responsibility in your actions, integrity in your words; you will be just enriching the other person, and the other person will be enriching you.  Relationship will become successful, leading both of you to experience the same reality. 

Now I wanted to give you the meditation process to experientially flower in true love, in relationships. 

The first step: Look in and pen down –

·         What you feel about you when you are with that person with whom you are in love,

·         What you feel about you when you are not with that person with whom you are in relationship, and

·         How you show you to that person.  Pen down all these. 

·         How that person perceives you, and

·         How you perceive that person.

Pen down all these five points independently.  And look in, what are the conflicts and incompletions between these five answers.  Look in, when you started developing those incompletions in you. 

I will repeat the instruction. 

·         What you feel about you when you are with that person? – First question. 

·         What do you feel about you when you are away from that person? – Second question. 

·         How you show you to that person? – Third question. 

·         How that person perceives you? – Fourth question. 

·         How you perceive that person? – Fifth question. 

See all these five questions are answered authentically, and sit and see in these five answers wherever the conflicts, contradictions, incompletions are there, pen them down, and look back how you developed those incompletions, and re-live those incompletions within you.  Re-live again and again, and relieve.

Let me elaborate instructions on incompletion.  When I say “incompletion”, the conflicts, contradictions you have, contradictions, conflicts, how you feel about you, but how you project you to that person.  You don’t need to project you to that person in the same way you feel about you, because what you feel about you itself is not completely true.  So, I am not asking you to just project you to that person as you feel about you.  No!  I am saying, first of all, complete even the way you feel about you.  Bring Completion into that.  There are a lot of incompletions, factual errors, the way you feel about you.  Re-live all the incompletion memories, the way you feel about you, and relieve.  And, let all these five be aligned to each other – the way you feel about you when you are alone, the way you feel about you when you are with him or her, the way you project you to the other person, the way the other person understands you, and the way you understand the other person.  Let all these five be brought to Completion, to sync to Oneness.  Whatever contradictions, incompletions you have in these five answers, dig out how these incompletions came in your system, what are the patterns, incidents, when you developed these incompletions in you.  Go back to your memories.  See why, when, how you developed these incompletions, contradictions, conflicts.  Re-live those incidents, and relieve those incompletions.  Bring Completion within you, then sit with the other person, help the other person to come to the space of Completion with you.  That is what is “completing with the other person”. 

Please understand, this meditation process has to be done together.  First, you bring yourself to Completion, and help the other person to bring Completion.  Both of you sit together and bring both of you to Completion. 

I can give you example of this non-alignment between these five.  When you are alone without that person, you may be feeling frightened, shivering, victim mentality; but you may be showing to the other person that you are very courageous, confident.  I am not saying you need to show yourself to that person as a victim, frightened.  No!  Complete with that victim mentality, frightened mentality, fear mentality.  Bring Completion into you.  Show yourself as a complete being.  Take responsibility for what he feels about you, and decide to have a right possibility and Completion with him.  This is what I say, this is what I mean when I say “aligning”.  Wherever you feel you are stuck, you are feeling the non-alignment, dig deep why this pattern started growing in you, when you started growing this pattern in you.  Remember those incidents and pen down.  Re-live them and relieve them till those patterns and incidents lose power over your cognition.  Do this exercise at least eleven days with the other person. 

Sometimes you may say, ‘What if the other person does not want to do, talk to me, or do this Completion, and does not believe in it?’  Don’t worry, you are capable enough to bring Completion in the other person.  Completion is the one process you can do for the other person, because it is based, rooted on the experience of Oneness.  You do this process for eleven days and bring Completion in you.  You will see, the other person simply recognizes the space of Completion you are carrying, the other person simply responds to the space of Completion you are carrying, and the Oneness is awakened in the other person also.  I am not talking about some theory; it is a science!  When you bring Completion in you, you WILL awaken Completion in the other person! 

MEDITATION IN PROGRESS (for about eleven minutes)...........

With this, I bless you all to experience the Complete Completion and oneness with the other person.  I also welcome all of you to come to the Inner Awakening program and experience the Science of Completion and Oneness experientially, and live, radiate the same reality, present and future reality, Oneness, living Oneness.  Thank you.

I bless you all!  Let you all radiate with Integrity, Authenticity, Responsibility, Enriching, and Causing eternal bliss, Nithyananda!  Thank you!

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1st August

1st August 2014 / Friday

MORNING SATSANGH BY PARAMAHAMSA NITHYANANDA – FRIDAY, 1 AUGUST 2014 – ANNOUNCEMENT

No live satsangh today.  Recorded satsangh of Sunday, 6 July 2014 – “LIFE IS MAHABHARATA” – was telecast.

http://www.nithyananda.org/video/life-mahabharata

31st July

31st July 2014 / Thursday

No live satsangh today.  Recorded satsangh of Thursday, 10 July 2014, delivered at Bidadi, was played.

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MORNING SATSANGH BY PARAMAHAMSA NITHYANANDA – BIDADI, THURSDAY, 10 JULY 2014 – NOTES

Nithyanandeshwara Samaarambhaam

Nithyanandeshwari Madhyamaam |

Asmath Aachaarya Paryanthaam

Vandhey Guru Paramparaam ||

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I welcome all of you with my love and blessings. 

Thanks for the Kirtan team.  Such wonderful kirtan in the morning!  I am so happy that one of the important spiritual practices of Hinduism is added into our Sangha daily routine.  I wanted all the components of the Vedic tradition to be made available here.  We start our day with Nithya Yoga, then Nithya Kriya, then Nithya Puja, then chanting – Nithya Paaraayana, then now added Nithya Kirtanam, and Nithya Satsangh.  Every day, in the temple, Nithya Homa goes on.  All the main aspects of Hinduism, Vedic tradition, should be made available in our Sangha.  I am so happy it is happening.  I also wanted all over the world all the ashrams and centres to develop your own Nithya Kirtan team, team of devotees, disciples who can sing well, do Nithya Kirtan every day.  Let the Nithya Kirtan become a practice in our life. 

As I said already, from Jnana Sambandhar to Ramakrishna, all the great incarnations have agreed and accepted the power of Kirtan.  They all promoted Kirtan so much.  This is one of the direct ways to blow away all the incompletions, clear all the incompletions away.  That is one of the beautiful, most beautiful spiritual practices.  See, Poornathwa Kriya, Completion process uses your intellectual abilities to awaken your consciousness; it pushes your intellectual buttons rightly and awakens your emotional capability, conscious capabilities, Kundalini Shakthi.  Nithya Kirtan pushes the right emotional buttons and awakens your Kundalini Shakthi, your consciousness.  I tell you, the Kundalini awakened, energy released, consciousness raised is ten times more if your emotional button is pushed than your intellectual button getting pushed!  In the intellectual button, you have to be all alone, sitting and drilling.  In the emotional button, the whole life supports you, all your dimensions and energies support you. 

It is time one of the important aspects is added to our every-day life, added to our spiritual practice, added to our spiritual sadhana to awaken our inner potential energy and Kundalini Shakthi.  Nithya Yoga, Nithya Kriya, Nithya Puja, Nithya Kirtanam, Nithya Paaraayana, Nithya Satsangh, and Nithya Homa, Nithya Annadhaana, all the aspects of Vedic tradition should be practised and made available to the whole world.  We should enrich the world with all the major aspects of Hindu tradition, the Vedic tradition. 

Today, as part of the Satsangh subject, I will say a few words about Karma.  This is one of the most talked-about subjects.  I have also talked about this subject, Karma, many times, from many aspects, from many dimensions.  Now I wanted to talk about Karma from the angle of blind spots. 

Please listen!  Anything which you don’t understand in life, where your logic is not ready to penetrate, be very clear, it is simple incompletion which your logic does not want to see.  Listen!  Anything in your life which you don’t understand, which you are not able to grasp, is the incompletion which you don’t want to look into.  Your consciousness by its nature, its swabhaava, is “Swayam Prakaasha”, by its nature, self-effulgent, “Swayam Prakaasha”, self-shining.  So, there is no such thing which you cannot understand in life.  Whether it is which graha (planet) moving where, which star moving in which direction, or how to use your remote control and operate the TV in front of you, or the various aspects of the electronic gadget which you newly bought, anything, please understand, anything, your logic is “Swayam Prakaasha” to locate, to look.  Whether understanding a Law book, or understanding a musical instrument, or understanding some truths about Botany or Biology or Zoology, understand, the truth is, your consciousness is self-effulgent, “Swayam Prakaasha”.  This is the principle I am directly applying and proving in our Gurukul, don’t you see? 

None of our Bala Sants had training or coaching in any field.  None of their teachers know more than what they know.  That much I can guarantee.  None of their teachers know more than what they know.  But they go on excelling in so many things, and they will go on excelling in so many things.  This will be the new brand of education in the world, Nithyananda brand of education where the basic principle is not you need to be told or educated, but you need to look in or concentrate your self-effulgence, your “Swayam Prakaasha”.  If you are not able to understand something, it is your own incompletions, you don’t want to look in.  Understand that at least.  At least know the right reasons for your powerlessness.  You can complete and get out of it.  

Your ignorance is not inability; it is your decision not to look into that truth.  Please understand, never label your ignorance as your inability.  No!  Every problem, you should do a right post-mortem, so that you can avoid it the next time.  Every accident, we should do the right post-mortem, so that we can develop a system to avoid that later.  Don’t say, ‘Oh, after all he is dead.  What is there?  Leave it!’  No!  Do post-mortem and learn the lessons.  Same way, every problem you have, do post-mortem and have the right intelligence.  Do post-mortem and have the right intelligence.  Do post-mortem and have the right intelligence.

Your ignorance is not your inability; it is your decision not to look in, your incompletion, your decision not to look in.  Understand, your decision not to look in is your ignorance.  I wanted to repeat it.  Your ignorance is your choice.  At least have the right understanding about your wrong understanding.  If you have the right understanding about your wrong understanding, you can complete it.  Why you don’t want to look into something is second; but know very clearly, your ignorance is the area you don’t want to look in, not your inability to look in.  Please understand, when you understand there is no zone you don’t want to look in, there is no incompletion, your pure self-effulgence is fully alive and ready to look into anything and understand anything, no incompletion stops you, you are “Sarvajna”.  Understand, “Sarvajna” does not mean he KNOWS everything; it means he CAN know everything!  Understand the difference.  This is one of the biggest confusions Hindus go on entertaining, infused by the stupid western intellectuals. 

We have so many Sarvajnas who existed in our tradition, all-knowers.  They established so many Sarvajna Peethas.  Western intellectuals always questioned, ‘If your ancestors were all-knowers, Sarvajnas, why they didn’t invent train?’  So many questions they ask.  First thing you should know, it is not that they have not invented; it is that they have not patented, that is all!  Second thing you need to know, you should understand the context properly, the meaning of the word “all-knower” properly.  It means, they can know anything they want. 

When Ubhaya Bharati asked Shankaracharya about the secrets, knowledge about physical relationship, he didn’t immediately have that knowledge, but he could straight get it.  He could send one ray of his energy into somebody’s body and see the whole action, science, what happens in and out, and was able to explain the whole thing to Ubhaya Bharati.  Understand, it means being a celibate by birth, but not out of any incompletion towards sex.  He is simply able to look in!  It means, he does not have any incompletion.  He has not become a celibate because of any incompletion.  He has not become a celibate because of any incompletion.  HAHAHAHA!  That is the beauty of brahmacharya in Vedic tradition....brahmacharya in Vedic tradition.  If he has become a brahmachari, celibate, due to some incompletions with sex, he cannot straight look into that science and answer Ubhaya Bharati’s questions.  The moment Ubhaya Bharati saw Shankara, the motherliness in her was awakened.  Like Meenakshi, representative of Meenakshi, the Pandya King’s wife, Mangayarkarasi, when she saw Jnana Sambandhar, immediately she felt the motherliness.  Mangayarkarasi was basically from the Chola Kingdom.  She was married to the Pandya King.  Ubhaya Bharati, even though she felt that motherliness, she somehow wanted to win against Shankara for the sake of her husband.  The moment she put the question, simply Shankara was able to look in, see Kashi Raja’s body.  He sent one ray of himself into Kashi Raja’s body. 

Understand, the pure consciousness, when you don’t have incompletions and want to look into, you can just look into any one person’s brain, or look through any body.  Usually, that is what I do.  If I want to have knowledge about any subject, I will pick up that book, just concentrate on the knowledge of that author, the thought-trend of that author, download it and absorb, and throw that.  Not for pride, even now I tell you, I challenge, get me any book in the world, whether it is about Astrology, Astronomy, Gemmology, Zoology, Botany, Biology, Law, anything, in a few hours I will give you the essence, the thought-trend of the whole book!  Because, in Vedic tradition, when you don’t have incompletions, you can look into anything, you can know anything. 

Not having incompletions to know anything is what we call “Sarvajna”.  I will make Sarvajnas out of my kids!  No, really!  I am making this huge library just for my kids.  Actually, I don’t want to teach anything in the Gurukul other than language.  Just teach them language by the age of six, seven, and leave them in the library.  Let them master the science of knowing anything they want.  They just need the consciousness without any incompletions.  Means, the idea, ‘I can know this’ should be developed in them, that is all.  I tell you, fortunately I never went to school and learned these teachers’ incompletions and stupid mentality.  Stupid fellows go on teaching impossibility to kids.  Means, by making it so difficult, saying that you have to read line by line, and after that do this, this, this, this, memorise, and saying that memorising is difficult....!  Making it like a monster!  Just because they have to have power over the kids, they exploit the kids by teaching the kids that knowledge is difficult.  I will show the world that knowledge is just like breathing, as easy as breathing!  But these stupid teachers made even breathing as difficult!  They have not left anything easy!  Like pharmaceutical companies and doctors made health as difficult as possible!  These psychologists’, psychoanalysts’ associations go on discovering, every fourteen days, fifteen days, one disease they discover just to have more and more people covered under their fold.  Same way, stupid so-called teachers go on making knowledge as difficult as possible.  I will produce Sarvajnas out of my gurukul kids and teach the world how simple knowledge is! 

Still when I remember, my eyes become watery.  These village men and women who are my gurus, both my gurus – Yogananda Puri and Vibhootananda Puri – what an extraordinary intelligence they were having!  From the beginning, they were so clear.  See, by being around them, automatically I picked up this attitude of “anything I want to know I can know, anything I wanted to do I can do”.  This was not taught systematically to me, please understand.  Like how in our ashram if you live, you will simply get the confidence to do Completion and Nirahara Samyama because every other person will be doing Nirahara Samyama, every other person will be sitting and doing Completion.  You will not have neck pain to wear this big mala, because every other person will be wearing!  Just things are in the air!  See, there are some things which are not taught; you pick it up from the air.  With both my gurus, it was so amazing, just in their air I picked up, in their presence I picked up that if you want to know anything you can know simply, if you want to do something you can do simply!  I never knew, whether it is swimming or climbing a hill or anything, human-beings need to be taught!  I always thought, if you want just jump and do it!  Not just this swimming and trekking, but everything. 

I still remember one day I went to Mataji Vibhootananda Puri and told her, ‘In the temple such a beautiful deity is there!  It is so nice!  I want like that!’  She said, ‘You make it!’  I did not even ask how.  And, immediately, from my neighbour I got one mould of Lakshmi and made a clay mould out of it.  I didn’t get any other metal other than a few aluminium plates from my mother.  I asked her, ‘Give me some waste metal.’  She did not know what for I am asking.  She had some four-five aluminium plates.  She said, ‘This is useless.  Take it.’  She thought I am going to give it to some sadhus for begging.  So she said, ‘Take it.’  I immediately brought that and melted and poured the mould and made the deity.  Still we have the deity that was done by me personally by my own hand.  And then, after the mould, I cleared it and I myself carved it.  I was hardly a twelve-year-old boy!  I did not even have a second thought!  When I made it and took it to my guru, she said, ‘This is your Lakshmi!’  This ability to look into anything, and the space of Completion to look into anything, and no incompletion about anything, simply possibility!  Everything is doable....and do it!  Not only doable, do it! 

Blind spots are not inabilities; they are choices.  Thinking that blind spot is inability is “Karma”.  Understanding it is a choice is “freedom from Karma”.  Don’t even know about inability and possibility, and simply you are living, making everything possible, is “Vikarma”.  I neither knew it is difficult for some people, easy for some people; I simply did it like breathing, like living.  Still we have that Lakshmi deity with us.  When I went and told, ‘That deity is so beautiful!  I want like that one deity!’, she neither discouraged me nor she started explaining how to get it.  She said, ‘Make it!  You can!’

I tell you, having the clarity, having the clarity that anything is possible, no blind spot is our inability, it is only our choice, is “Sarvajnatwa”.  Have this clarity: anything is possible and everything is possible.  Understand, you are nothing but a bunch of your patterns.  You can work and remove those patterns.  Your strong belief about yourself – ‘I cannot do anything’ – all that are just patterns.  Mostly you do not even have the patterns of ‘I cannot do’, but ‘I do not want to do’, your violence towards yourself and life.  Mostly, I can tell you, it is your violence that you do not want to do.  Complete with that and get rid of it.  Life will celebrate you.  Life will shower on you.  If not, go through what you have to go through!  What to do?  The deity photo is available now.  You can see.  Have a look at the deity which I made by melting a few aluminium plates in the house.  This is when I inaugurated Nithyananda Sacred Arts University!  HAHAHAHAHAHA!  This day was the inauguration of the Nithyananda Sacred Arts University!  What an auspicious inauguration by making Lakshmi first!  Anyhow.....

Understand, the possibility you carry is your Lakshmi!  The possibility you carry is your Lakshmi.  The decision not to have incompletions, understand, anything and everything you carry is your Saraswathi.  Making it happen is your Durga.  That is all is life! 

With this, I bless you all! 

Bidadi is getting ready for Guru Poornima.  I welcome all of you to be here for Guru Poornima. 

And, after long years, almost two-hundred-and-fifty years, the temple is getting reconstructed.  How many times we will organize, never happened!  We will organize, it will never happen!  Finally, Kalpavruksha, Banyan Tree has given permission and work is happening beautifully.  Beautiful stone temple, the construction is happening.  The Swayambhu Nithyanandeshwara’s home is getting rebuilt.  There was a temple earlier.  In course of time it just got sunk into the sand.  But the main deity and Garbhamandir was alive.  Now we are rebuilding it properly.  It is a huge golden temple.  It will be one of its kind.  Once completed, the whole temple will be the world’s largest Shiva temple.  And the main part of the temple, the Garbhagriha inside, and Mukha Mandapa, Ardha Mandapa, Maha Mandapa, Vasantha Mandapa, all that will be gold coated.  Done in stone and gold coated; that will be the uniqueness of our temple.  Gold is directly coated on the stone.  And gold layers and lacquer coating.  First golden temple for Mahadeva, Shiva!  First golden temple for Mahadeva!  Mahadeva had golden temples earlier.  Tanjore was golden temple.  But, unfortunately, during the invasions, the gold was stripped off.  The whole Tanjore tower was gold covered.  You can even now see the holes of how they have fixed the gold sheets.  They were stripped by the invaders, Muslim invaders.  Mahadeva had golden temples earlier, but now, in the modern era, this will be the first golden temple for Mahadeva.  Usually kings build, or rishis build, devas build.  Now, for Himself, He Himself is building for Himself!  This time if you come for Guru Poornima to Bidadi, you can see the stone work going on, carving, all the final finishing.  As per the Construction Department, they are claiming that they will complete the temple within four months, because most of the parts are ready.  It is now only the assembling.  That is great!  That is good news!  But we were collecting material for almost the last six years.  Six years we were collecting material!  Now we are able to make it happen.  Beautiful!

With this, I bless you all!  Let you all radiate with Integrity, Authenticity, Responsibility, Enriching and Causing eternal bliss, Nithyananda!  Thank you!

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30th July

30th July 2014 / Wednesday

No live satsangh today.  Recorded satsangh of 6 May 2014 – “DESTROY THE PATTERN OF IMPOSSIBILITY” (http://www.nithyananda.org/video/destroy-pattern-impossibility) – was played.

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MORNING SATSANGH BY PARAMAHAMSA NITHYANANDA – VARANASI, TUESDAY, 6 MAY 2014 – NOTES

Nithyanandeshwara Samaarambhaam

Nithyanandeshwari Madhyamaam |

Asmath Aachaarya Paryanthaam

Vandhey Guru Paramparaam ||

I welcome all the devotees, disciples, samajis, satsanghis, Shrimahants, Mahants, Kotharis, Thanedars sitting with us through Nithyananda TV, Lotus TV, Sadhna TV, Janashree TV, and two-way video-conferencing having Nayana Deeksha all over the world.

The cities sitting with us through two-way video-conferencing having Nayana Deeksha all over the world: Island Creek-North Carolina, Ohio-Prayag, Charlotte-Srisailam, Seattle-Chidambaram, Oklahoma-Somanatham, New York-Varanasi, Guadeloupe-Rameshwaram, Hong Kong-Sirkazhi, Peethadeeshwaris Training Centre-Salem, Singapore-Singapuram, Tiruvanmiyur-Chennai, Toronto-Kailasam, Hyderabad-Gupta Kashi, Oklahoma-Somanatham, Seattle-Chidambaram, San Jose-Madurai, Nithyananda Nagara-Bidadi, Nithyananda Nagaramu-Hyderabad, Nithyananda Nagar-Tiruvannamalai......

There are many more cities.  Once they join, I will read out their names.

Now, with this, I welcome all of you with my love and respects.

Today, the sixth day of the Meenakshi Brahmotsavam!  Mahadeva and Meenakshi are gracing us on the sixth day of Meenakshi Brahmotsavam.  Let us bow down to them.

In Bidadi, Meenakshi is gracing on the Golden Peacock Vehicle, Suvarna Mayura Vaahana, and Sundareshwara is gracing with a pearl crown, pearl and rudraksha crown.  (Arathi being done to Meenakshi and Sundareshwara at Bidadi is projected onto the screen).  Hope you guys are able to see.

Yes!  We will move to the next part of the satsangh.

Today, in the Inner Awakening, we are going to expand on, we are going to work on Root Patterns, the pattern of struggle with which you are constantly keeping your inauthenticity alive. 

Many times, whenever I open up and share a truth, people ask me, ‘Swamiji, tell us how to do.....technique.’  The moment I give the technique, ‘Swamiji, how to do this technique, can you give some other technique?’  The moment I give a technique for the technique, they say, ‘Can you give a technique for the technique of the technique?’!!  Means, in your effort to postpone the tansformation, in your effort to postpone Authenticity happening, just to keep your inauthenticity alive, you go on making all the techniques ineffective on you.  Please understand, root pattern is the system through which you continue to keep your struggle and inauthenticity – the strong belief that you cannot do it – alive!  All of you understand?  Keeping “you cannot do it” alive!  See, as long as that “you cannot do it” is kept alive only......

Listen!  I am defining Root Pattern.  I don’t speak from my mind; I speak from spontaneity.  Listen!  Root Pattern is nothing but the pattern through which you keep your struggle, your impossibility, your inauthenticity alive.  Why you don’t want to have a breakthrough?  Because, if you have a breakthrough, then more and more possibility for transformation will open up. 

I have seen, when people come to the ashram in the name of seekers and sannyasis, they don’t want to take any responsibility and make it successful, because if they do one, then, naturally, the reward for one success is one more responsibility!  Please understand, the reward for one success is one more responsibility! 

So, understand, Root Pattern is what Buddha calls as “Mara”, Advaitha calls as “Maya”.  In every tradition, what we consider as the biggest blockage for enlightenment is Root Pattern.  But do you know the funny thing?  Root Pattern is not that powerful as it is portrayed in many traditions!  Mara is not that powerful!  Maya is not that powerful!

Please listen!  Just a few days before, myself and one of my Mahants, both of us were going for an evening boat ride.  When we went, don’t ask!  Just a few hours, somehow we stole from our tight schedule.  Myself and Mokshapriyan, we were sitting.  So, at that time, there was a discussion, very serious discussion.  It is very difficult to get Mokshapriyan’s listening!  There was a very serious discussion about why our Vision Department has no vision.

He was telling, ‘Swamiji, we need to bring new hands, new people inside, because these guys, constantly they are in fear syndrome, Swamiji.’ 

I asked, ‘Why?  Tell me.’

‘See, they do some mistake and then get fired and fall into fear, and because of that fear they do more mistakes, and it becomes a vicious circle!’

I was laughing!  Please understand! 

I told him, ‘This moment I am ready to liberate them all.  I will be the most happiest person to liberate them this moment, and say, “This moment you become a Shrimahant.  Run it on your own”.’ 

I am the first person, I will be the first person....because, if you keep anybody under fear, you will be kept under fear, understand!  Whatever you maintain with people around you, you will be made to maintain that.  This is a law of life.  If you maintain joy with people around you, you will be made to maintain joy inside you.  If you maintain trust with people around you, you will be made to maintain trust inside you, because you are not intelligent enough to separate you and others all the time.  So, be very clear, what you spread with the people around you, that will be automatically forced inside you.  If you are all the time inside a charcoal godown, naturally the charcoal dust will get into your system.  If you are all the time inside an acid tank, naturally the acid will somehow get into your system.  If you are all the time inside the nectar pot, naturally the nectar will get into your system.  So, what is the pattern with which you hold the people around you....

I am the last person....not even last, I will never want to hold people through fear, because I know the science.  If I have to hold people through fear, I will be held under fear.  It is a law of life.  I always wanted to hold people by inspiration, joy, vision, success, bliss, powerfulness, Completion.

I asked him, ‘Please you find a solution and come back with some solution.’

I am sharing this incident just to reveal this one important truth:  With what you hold people around you, is your Root Pattern!  Inside me, I constantly hold people around me through my bliss, seeing their possibility.  That is why life also holds me in the same way, understand?  But, unfortunately, people get frightened by the bliss and transformation to their possibility.  Many people who come in the name of seekers, they are afraid of transformation!  Because, transformation means more responsibility!  And once you take it up, the reward will be more responsibility.  Once you take it up, the reward will be more responsibility. 

Once, the Pancheshwar was sitting and questioning somebody who has done some mistake.  See, in our Sangha, we have a self-corrective mechanism – “Pancheshwar”.  Means, either five Shrimahants or Mahants sit and take an oath that ‘We will handle these rare situations and the person, only based on Dharma, the Advaitha tatwa.’  And then they conduct an investigation or inquiry into that problem or the mistakes of the person, help the person to come out of that mental setup; that’s all.  And the person takes a prayaschitta (atonement) on his own, or her own, whatever that person has to do to get out of that mental pattern. 

So, once the Pancheshwar was sitting and inquiring a person.  The person had done some mistake and not ready to accept.  The Pancheshwar decided that this person should not be in our ashram, or, at least, should be transferred to the branch centre.  I told very clearly, ‘We are hoping to have ten-lakh sadhus.  The structure we are creating is for a million sannyasis.  So, you think this kind of models, specimens, sample pieces will not come in the ten-lakh?  So, like this, ten-thousand will come in that ten-lakh.  So, handle this one, train this one, and get trained.’  Understand, success in responsibility is rewarded with more responsibility.  I told the Pancheshwar, ‘Yes, you are successful in your responsibility.  The reward now for you is more responsibility.  Now you have to be successful handling this one person, because you are going to have ten-lakh persons like this, understand?’

I think you need to understand that two things.  One truth, the reward for the success is more responsibility.  And, if you want success, you should take more responsibility.

I told the Pancheshwar, ‘You guys are planning for ten-lakh sannyasis.  We are working towards that vision.  Because, the vision I give is the vision you carry, you hold.’

I am very clear, the whole Sangha is clearly working towards causing ten-lakh, means, one-million, spiritually educated, experienced, radiating sannyasis.  Please understand, I will cause this while I am in this body.  That is the only way Sanatana Hindu Dharma can be revived practically as every individual’s life strategy, life science.  If you see the Master Plan of my Samadhi, you will be shocked.  Samadhi alone, ten-thousand samadhis, I am doing the Master Plan!  Means, in this ten-lakh, whoever becomes enlightened while they are living, they will all have their Samadhi around my Samadhi.  So, at least, at least, ten-thousand enlightened beings will have Samadhi in one place!  This larger responsibility needs you to take more responsibility. 

Your Root Pattern should become powerless by the way you take responsibility, or your responsibilities will become powerless by the way your Root Pattern overpowers you.  Listen, it is the game of who wins over whom, who declares their supremacy over whom, whether your responsibility is going to declare its supremacy over your Root Pattern, or your Root Pattern is going to declare its supremacy over your responsibility.  That’s all!  That’s all!  Are you going to be chanting “impossibility” twenty-four hours as Ajapa Japa – “Impossible, Impossible, Impossible!  Sitting down also impossible!  Finally, lying down also impossible!  Eating is also impossible!  Nothing is possible!  Impossible, Impossible, Impossible, Impossible!”?  Are you going to be doing that Japa of impossibility, or “Possible, Possible, Possible, Possible, Possible!”?  It is just a war whether your Root Pattern is going to declare its supremacy over you, or your responsibility is going to declare its supremacy over your Root Pattern.  The whole thing boils down to that one line.

Root Pattern is the constant impossibility you cherish.

Yesterday I was put a question by Pragnesh: ‘Swamiji, Please define Advaitha, feeling oneness with other people.  At the physical level, mind level, there cannot be oneness due to uniqueness of each individual.  There can be connection only at the heart, or at the heart level of consciousness, awareness.  Can you please explain?’

I think this question you will understand more when you work on the Root Pattern.  Pragnesh, I will show you the experiential answer for that question today itself, because, today we are going to work on the Root Pattern.  You will see, even at the physical and mental level, Advaitha can be experienced.  “Each one is unique” itself is Advaitha!  “Each one is the same only” is not Advaitha.  “Each one is unique” is Advaitha.  How?  You will see today! 

Oneness is not Advaitha, understand.  Advaitha is non-duality, but not oneness.  The moment you say “one”, there is “two”.  So, this has to be experienced.  Today you will see.

The Root Pattern, the pattern which started patterns in you, the parent of patterns in you, is Root Pattern.  Parent of patterns in you is Root Pattern.  Listen!

At some point, the Advaitha is lost in every human-being’s life.  At that moment only the Root Pattern starts growing in you.  Now, completing with the Root Pattern, getting back to the original state of Advaitha, the original space of Advaitha, is what we are going to work on today.  Today that is what we are going to work on. 

One thing I am very happy.  Let me express in my own words directly.  I am happy with this whole batch, with all you guys.  The sincerity you guys carry is more than what I expected for such a large batch.  Please understand, such a large batch, the whole overall sincerity is more than what I expected.  So, you guys are doing what you need to do.  So, I commit with you guys and promise I will do what I need to do.  I will surely do what I need to do.  With this team I can really feel that we will be able to help everyone to find the Root Pattern and complete with it. 

Any adult, the moment your body becomes physically mature, the first thing you need to do, the person needs to be taught is, finding the Root Pattern and completing with it.  Finding the Root Pattern and completing with it.  It is very unfortunate we human-beings lost this science.  Human-beings lost this since.

Mahadeva’s Trishul represents Completion with Root Pattern.  Because, only his Trishul can destroy our Root Pattern.  Only his Trishul is powerful enough to find our Root Pattern.  And you are in the city which is held by Mahadeva’s Trishul – Varanasi, Ananda Vana.  And, that is why, when Shankara divides the areas and makes Shankaracharyas – in the South he makes Dakshinamnaya Shringeri Peetha, Uttaramnaya, Paschimamnaya, Purvamnaya – he makes all the four Peethas, Purva, Uttara, Paschima, Dakshina.  Then after the successor is installed, the Shankaracharyas are supposed to retire.  The retiring place is Moolamnaya – Kanchi.  But he says very clearly, in any of these, Kashi is not covered, Kashi does not come under any of these five.  Because Kashi is held by Mahadeva’s Trishula, it is called Oordhwamnaya!  He makes it as a separate Amnaya, Kashi.  And this is the place, Varanasi is the place, where he conquered Mandana Mishra, and Mandana Mishra became his disciple Sureshwaracharya.  Kashi has become Oordhwamnaya, because Mahadeva holds this Ananda Vana by the tip of his Trishul. 

Somebody asked me, ‘Swamiji, you gave names to so many cities, spiritual names.....’ 

Many of you may be aware that for Ohio I gave the spiritual name “Prayag”, for Oklahoma “Somanatham”, for New York “Varanasi”, for London “Kashi”.  I have given spiritual name wherever our ashrams and temples are there.  For St. Louis “Thirumala”.  Only “Kashi” name I have given to two cities; means, one “Kashi” (London), one “Varanasi” (New York). 

Somebody asked me, ‘Swamiji, you love this name “Ananda Vana”.  Why you have not given this name to a city?’ 

I wanted to give this name “Ananda Vana” wherever my quarters are built, wherever there is another staying place for me.  In any ashram if there is a staying place for me, that space should be called “Ananda Vana”.  Because, this Ananda Vana is held by Mahadeva in his Trishul, understand.  In this sacred place, right place, right person, right process you are going to go through today!  Only Mahadeva’s Trishul can destroy your Root Pattern.  And, I commit with you guys, it will destroy all your Root Patterns and liberate you all from the Root Patterns, free you all from the Root Patterns!  Freedom from all the Root Patterns is the real freedom!  Freedom from the Root Patterns is the real freedom!

The essence of today’s satsangh – three statements:

·         How you hold the people around you, the same way life will hold you.  If you hold your teamily with love, trust, joy, life will hold you with love, trust, joy.  If you hold your teamily with fear, life will hold you with fear.  If you hold your teamily with bliss and possibility, life will hold you in the same way with bliss and possibility.  I am very clear, I hold my teamily with bliss and possibility.  How you hold your teamily, life will hold you the same way.  That is the first statement.

·         Second: Your Root Pattern is the first pattern which moved you away from Advaitha, brought you to hell, started and continuing to torture you.

·         Third: The good news is, you can discover your Root Pattern and complete it.  The best news is, today we will do it!  There is no need that always after a good news, bad news has to come.  No!  After a good news, best news can come.

Ma Jnanatma has a question: ‘You have told earlier, how you hold people is what they are attracting.  That is the only way they will get awakened to life.  So, is it not that Swamiji is putting them into fear, because that is the only thing that will awaken them and they are attracting it?’

No!  Please be very clear.  I hold all of you only with bliss and possibility.  You need to know, even the bliss, when it comes too much, you get frightened!  Because, bliss will remind you of all your possibility which will take you away from your usual cosy slumber with which you go on cheating yourself and me, understand!  Yesterday, when I asked you, now nicely you were cheating, ‘No, no, no, no, no, I have to be here...’, so that you don’t need to be doing anything else, and here you can be sleeping in the tech pit.  So, look in, what keeps you cosy?  That holds you in fear, not me!  I hold you in bliss and possibility.  That is why I am always held by life in bliss and possibility.  Mokshapriyan, clear?  So, I am not responsible for the fear of the Vision Department.

When there is bliss and possibility, you get frightened of possibility, ‘If I am successful in this, by mistake if I am successful in this, more work will come to me, more responsibility.  Then I will become a Mahant, Shrimahant, and I may become like Swamiji.  Oh God!  Who wants his life?  You can only go to bed by night 11:30, 12 o’clock!  And, even after that, you have to attend to many things.  And early morning you have to be out and be here!  It is not one day, two days, but day in and day out!  And you will have to be all the time smiling, joyful!’ 

So, be very clear, I cannot hold anybody in fear, because I don’t have fear.  Only what I have, with that I can hold you guys.  See, if I have a knife in my hand, I can hold you all through the knife.  If I have a flower, I can hold you guys only through flower.  I only have flower with me; but the flower itself is so much, you are afraid of getting into it, being held by it. 

Intensity is not violence.  Intensity of Swamiji is not aggression.  In aggression, your possibility will be denied.  In violence, your possibility will be denied.  In intensity, your possibility will be constantly reminded to you.  There is a big difference between intensity and violence.  In violence, the end expectation is, you getting destroyed.  In intensity, the end result, expectation is, you flowering.  So, the training model for our Sangha is intensity, not violence.  Clear?

So, with this, I will move to the Kalpataru process.

All the cities all over the world, and the people from Ananda Vana, I request all of you to take a paper and pen.  Pen down one desire you want to cause as reality, and all the doubts, fears, impossibilities you have around that thought.  Pen down both.

(After a few minutes.....................)

Yes....now sit straight.  Complete with all the doubts, incompletions, fears you have.  Drop them.  Hold on to the space you want to cause as reality.  If you want health, see you are healthy.  If you want wealth, see you are wealthy.  Hold that space.  Hold that space sincerely, intensely, completely.

KALPATARU MEDITATION IN PROGRESS.....................

Thathaasthu!  I bless you all!  The space you hold, let it become reality!  The space you created, let it become reality!  The visualization you held, let it become reality!  Thathaasthu!

We will have darshan for the people who came in Ananda Vana.

I bless you all!  After this, we will have only Mahants meeting.  Only Mahants can sit.  Others can leave the hall after the darshan. 

So, now, I bless you all!  Let you all radiate with Integrity, Authenticity, Responsibility, Enriching and Causing eternal bliss, Nithyananda!  Thank you!

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